
All of you know that children hold a special place in my heart. I just adore them. Their sticky hands, big smiles, the dolphin -like sqeals they make when they are excited, their energy and love of everything sweet! Oh, the joys of children! What I fancy even more is their ability to enjoy life and PLAY even when the rest of us don’t want to (beacuse we have serious things to do). It’s true they teach grown- ups a lot about life and living well, wouldn’t you agree?
As a somewhat experienced parent (whatever that means), I have learned that children know what’s good. This rule applies to all parts of life - food, relationships, toys, friends, books, ways of being, etc.
Last week, my daughters decided to accompany me to a program called “using your gifts.” They were excited to learn that ”complimentary refreshments” woud be served. While we were there my daughters were treated rudely by a cranky lady (I didn’t witness it) and beautifully by a colleague of mine (which I was lucky to witness!). During the program, my daughters said nothing. But, once we walked out the door, the conversation began like a tornado. ”Mom, did you hear how badly that cranky woman treated us? We didn’t do anything wrong!”, and “Mom, Madgelena told us a cool story, she’s so nice.”
They also went on to talk about the refreshments. ”Mom, did you notice that they served raspberries on tooth picks? and honey with the tea? That’s so yummy!” “Yeah”, chimed in my 8 year old, “Raspberries are expensive now!”
Hearing this conversation was enlightening! My daughters recognize what’s good and what’s not! Children with an internal compass, hooray!
I share this story with you beacsue I think as parents it’s important for us to offer our children good choices. Whether it be whole foods, good books, interesting conversation, or a new improved way of doing something.
This is where Party with Heart comes in. If we begin to teach our children that there is a world outside their mini-world that they can positively influence they will feel pretty good about themselves. If we buy gifts that are fairtrade or “socially conscious” and explain to our children WHY we choose to buy such gifts, our children will learn what’s good. And they’ll LOVE it because children like GOOD THINGS!
This blog subject was inspired by a photo I received last night from a happy Party with Heart gift recipient. He is one of the most delicious babies I have ever seen! His froggie friend just so happens to be handmade and fairtrade, supporting a cooperative of women in Nepal. His parents are happy about that and so are we!
Lots of love,
Beth
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